I used to be that girl who sat on her computer and cellphone for hours. The addiction was induced by a variety of things and women. I could name a handful of apps it was aided by; however I think that why is more important than what poison I was abusing.
There’s a line between dreams and reality. A line that only gets more fine when seen by the eyes of an idealist. I’ve crossed enough borders to know that no matter the size of the line, it still functions as a divider. I was that girl with the rose colored glasses lit up by screens because I was more content in dreams than reality. Why would I want to leave that? I mean, those innocent dreams can be so sensational. Those memories looping behind my eyes with a smile on this face. Why would I leave this romantic place I was living in in my mind? This perspective formed by selfish selection and an application algorithm. Then there came a moment where I began asking myself what I was doing? What kind of moments was I missing? Was I living up to my potential? Was I living?
Some say that readers are simply people who live vicariously through the writers of the world. For it is the writers who tell the tales of their reality and it’s in the readers eyes where dreams are made. However, most of us both read and write social media every day. We operate in an environment where what we read and write is influenced more on what we want people to see than who we are.
My point is that being sucked into the perception of life versus the genuine reality is something that I couldn’t do any more. I couldn’t do it any more because I realized that I wanted to fall in love and be in love with life face to face. I decided my life would not be a spectator sport where I had to wait for my dreams to fall out of the WiFi ladened air. That my emotions would be guided more by la mirada del alma than a screen. I chose a beautiful reality full of adventures I could know so well that I can express them in limitless ways. Whether it’s in a blog, a conversation, a thousand glances, my hug around your body, the touch of my hands, or the kiss of my lips I can show my genuine experience in many more ways than a digital stream. Not to say that I don’t spend time in front of my gadgets but I have power over the line so that it is not a noose destroying a beautiful reality. I challenge everyone to live even a little more in the moment than they did the day before.